2020 Transformational Intensive For Extraordinary Facilitators

Date(s) - 09/12/2020 - 09/19/2020
12:00 pm - 10:00 am


This is moving to virtual

Announcing the 2020 Transformational Intensive for Extraordinary Facilitators.
It’s our sixth year, and each one gets better than the last!!
This year it’s near Washington DC!
7 days, 8 extraordinary teachers, and we are opening registration for just 12 attendees. Every year we have sold out!!! RSVP now : https://www.eventbrite.com/e/2020-transformational-intensive-for-extraordinary-facilitators-tickets-80984144757

This is the greatest creative inspiration I have ever created. It’s a culmination of my life’s work thus far. I have spent eleven years now traveling the country learning and practicing these tools and now I want to share them with you.
So many of you have asked for the steps, for a training to be able to do what I do, well I’m going to offer you one better…. I’m going to offer you an intensive, a “Monique Boot Camp” if you will, with myself and some other extraordinary facilitators, to help you find out what’s in the way of you being able to offer your greatest gift to the world to your clients, workshop attendees, partners, every aspect of your life, YOU! You are the gift!!

Let’s start with the dates September 12-19 2020

I have assembled some of the most incredible facilitators on the planet into one place;

This year’s lineup includes Laurie Handlers, Monique Darling, Peter Petersen, Shawn Roop, Reid Mihalko, Cathy Vartuli, Wilrieke Sophia, and Johnny Vajra.

International experts in the disciplines of :
Authenticity and Vulnerability
Sacred Sxuality
Emotional Release
Radical Self Acceptance
Personal Accountability
Energetic Mastery
Orgasmic Touch
Personal Rapport
Fearless Relating
Latihan – moving in the unknown, making love in the unknown.
Practitioner Financial Stability (business savvy to make money doing what you love)

It will be limited to 13 participants, an intimate group, that will eat together, sleep together, learn, expand, and transform together in a gorgeous private home near Washington DC mere minutes from Dulles International Airport.
I have crammed the juiciest, the most divine, the most potent things I have learned into these 7 days. This will push you. Wherever you are at in your practice, whether you are just getting started and could use a wider range of tools, or you have been facilitating for years and have reached a plateau, or you are going strong but in danger of settling into a comfort zone. This will invite you to new levels, to deeper depths. I am offering the steps that I took (concentrated), real world tools for practitioners who are ready to take their next step, fundamentals for advanced studies, including offering my top mistakes and the greatest gifts I got from them, so you won’t have to make them!

You will also get access to a private facebook group for follow up and support to integrate the unique concepts you take away from the experience.
Intrigued yet?

RSVP : https://www.eventbrite.com/e/2020-transformational-intensive-for-extraordinary-facilitators-tickets-80984144757

I call it a Transformational Intensive for Extraordinary Facilitators. It’s $2995 for the first one to buy, then $3297 for the next 2 of you who join, it’s only $3497 after that. There is a payment plan that works like this. $1,500 down (nonrefundable), $1,000 by June, and the final $1,000 by Sep 1st. Whether you go with the payment plan or pay it all up front you will want to get your tickets soon because …

I will be interviewing this years facilitators one by one until you have had a chance to meet them all. Each teacher is going to give their perspective on the three fundamental elements that this entire intensive is about.
Self Acceptance
Self Love
Self Accountability

This price includes accomodations, food, (vegetarian breakfast, lunch and snacks, (dinner is on your own) plus all the incredible night time activites?
A webinar introduction from each of our presenters, and post follow up integration with a Facebook group where you can share ideas, questions, and we can all follow up with each other as you bring forth your extraordinary Facilitator skills into the world.
and sooooooooo much more!

The 7 days will include

How to do your own inner work on a consistent basis so that you are available to be the most impeccable conscientious present facilitator/practitioner you can be and ultimately how to find your own path of falling in love with yourself. Check in’s every morning, as I help you integrate the lessons from the day before, and introduce the new presenter and why I chose them to add to our adventure, how they shaped my life/practice. Intimate pods, and break out groups to further share your gifts.

The Fundamentals
Tips, Skills, & a frank discussion on what it takes to stay sane when the road IS home.
How to Juggle relationships without having a “home base.”
Navigate clients that wish more ongoing work, when you won’t be back for another 6 months (Empowerment VS Enabling).
Get super clear on self-care requirements, and ask for you what you need ahead of time from your hosts/producers
Establish networking circles, create healthy win/wins with hosts/producers of your events in each city
And The big one…How to prioritize your time, delegate to others, take time off to sight see, yet create a sustainable financial system for ongoing classes, workshops and sessions.”
Ways to support life change, relationships transitions, and how to bring a person into pure purpose.
Ideas to impact the societal level with your gifts and wisdom.
Gain the skills to create ideal, repeat, high dollar clientele.
How to not facilitate/practice as a wounded healer.
“Dangerous Tantra”
Learn how to incorporate hands on demonstrations into your educational offerings!
Consent, why it’s crucial to an ethical practice, and demonstrate tools you can teach your clients in-session that help them learn how to both listen to and voice their authentic needs and desires.
How to break through belief systems, first your own so you can see more clearly past your own filters and then how to help your clients and workshop attendees break through theirs.
Learn to see life using pleasure as your gauge.
the delicious land of Energetics
A learnable approach to the business of being a sex educator that would augment your strengths, make you more prolific with less stress, inspire your fans and clients, free up more time for you to relax and recharge, and help you make money without feeling “salesy,” pushy, or creepy?
3 crushing mistakes most sex educators are making that leave them frustrated, burnout and broke, and the successful business models and practices that will help you turn your calling into a life-long, successful career.

We will close out this incredible week of extraordinariness with an Energetic Sex Play Party to help integrate everything you have learned this week.

All of this for $3497 or three payments of $1,597 down (Non refundable), $1,000, and the remaining $1,000 by September 15
SAVE YOUR SPOT HERE: RSVP : https://www.eventbrite.com/e/2020-transformational-intensive-for-extraordinary-facilitators-tickets-80984144757 (LIMITED TO 13 participants)

I arrived at the intensive a bit reserved, unsure why I was there, seeking…something. I was completely immersed in the deepest most passionate teachings of ten of the most extraordinary facilitators I have ever known. I found amongst my peer group similarly extraordinary individuals. I left the intensive with so much confidence, drive, so much ownership of myself. You know what? I am an extraordinary individual.
We all are.
You are. You deserve to know that without question, without limitation. And if you already have that locked down… you get to go even deeper. I was triggered, I was overwhelmed, I was expanded. A switch was flipped from off to on. I am on now.


Do it. Best investment I’ve made in to myself and the growth of my business. It empowered me to get clear about what my gifts are and how to share them. It inspired me to get creative and productive. I’ve made a fb biz page, designed biz cards and have been steadily plucking away at my website (that I’ve been “working” on for over a year) and I think most importantly it helped me work through some of my own shit. I’ve now come to realize we aren’t really able to be at our best for our clients when we aren’t continually working on ourselves. I originally saw this retreat as a “gift” to myself and now I see it as a well worth and necessary investment in myself as a person as well as a business woman. I came back with clarity of what I want in my relationships and life. And with the tools to get it. It has taught me how to be a better parent, lover and friend. Oh and super bonus- my orgasms have become even more intense and pleasurable.

I couldn’t be happier and I am so thankful to Monique for having the wisdom to know exactly who to invite as teachers.


Knowledge is power and I feel like dynamite after the intensive. I’ve been to many retreats and workshops and this one is so packed full of useful applicable information the value is definitely there plus all of the networking opportunities with leaders in the field, different perspectives, practices you can incorporate into your own work, the confidence and tools you will gain etc. a priority in any facilitator’s continuing education!


Well I learned how to be my best self now and that I can be a teacher and learned about my limiting beliefs and how to change the ones that weren’t serving me into something better, and a lot more, it really opened my eyes to the possibilities🙂


Most important for me are inner peace and calm and higher efficacy in my work with clients. If I start to feel stressed or “off” I connect to my yoni and the life force starts to flow through me again. I learned a lot but most importantly I am a changed person



Monique Darling, author of ‘Beyond Cuddle Party’ and workshop facilitator extraordinaire has led over 2000 workshops in the past 10 years. She is the founder of Everyday Tantra an organization dedicated to empowering people who are questioning the assumptions of how their life should be and to offering tools for self expression that create trust, inner knowing and wisdom to enjoy the life they have. Monique has taught at colleges across the US including Yale. She has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the globe. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating. Learn more about Monique by going to www.Everydaytantra.com

Reid Mihalko, sex and relationship geek, helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, keen insight, and comprehensive, pleasure-focused sexual health information.

Reid frequently speaks at colleges and universities on healthy relationship skills, and regularly appears in the media sharing his views on shame-free sexuality. In 2018, Reid began a restorative justice-based accountability process, stepping down from teaching, to address sexual misconduct and harms from 2010 that had been courageously shared as a result of #MeToo. The formal, year-long process was shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability.

Reid’s workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 50,000 people. He has appeared in media such as Netflix’ Chelsea Does… with Chelsea Handler, Oprah’s Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil’s The Doctors on CBS, Bravo’s Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages. Learn more at ReidAboutSex.com.
Peter Petersen Peter Petersen has been teaching qigong for 14 years and has been a certified massage therapist for the last 10. Peter has been teaching in health clubs, hospitals, retirement villas, and several different wellness/spa resorts in Mexico and the United States, such as Rancho La Puerta, Mayacamas Ranch, and Present Moment Retreat. Peter is also a personal wellness coach. This Qigong practice helps people ground themselves into their “now” to increase their present moment awareness of their behaviors, and find simple solutions to problematic habits such as: eating, moving, negative thinking, and sleeping. The result of this tool box of healthy information is that clients become their own health advocate and regain a sense of stability, peace, and well-being into their everyday lives.

Shawn Roop has been a student and teacher of life wisdom since 1989. He is the founder of Tantra Quest, author of Pathway to Love: 28 days to self love and holds a Bachelors in Sociology, is a Master Practitioner of NLP, a Certified Tantric Therapist and a Certified Master Tantric Counselor. Featured in numerous media appearances on NBC, Fox, E!, The Travel Channel, USA and Playboy Radio, as well as other radio and print articles, Shawn is proud to share his work with the intention to support healthy embodiment, personal empowerment and spiritual growth. You can see his work at http://www.TantraQuest.com

Wilrieke Sophia has been on the path of self-discovery her entire life. She has a vision of a world in which every person is empowered and in charge of creating the intimacy they want.

Through her company Exploring Deeper Wilrieke hosts a wide range of workshops, retreats, festivals, and individual sessions centered around the theme of intimacy. She taps into her years of experience in tantra, conscious kink, leadership, healing, shamanism, (open) relationship design, entrepreneurship, and the life experience gained since starting life as an extremely shy and insecure child.

Wilrieke is the founder of Cuddle Workshops International, holding teacher trainings and master classes for practitioners and facilitators. Another pillar is bringing inspiring teachers to The Netherlands. Wilrieke has worked with inspiring names like Jamie Catto, Monique Darling, Reid Mihalko, Steve Pavlina, and Seani Love. Wilrieke is also a passionate writer, writing for her own blog as well as guest articles for e.g. Elephant Journal, and Rebel Society. She’s also a public speaker who climbed the stage of e.g. TEDx.

Besides all this, she’s a mother of three daughters and she holds an MSc degree in Forest and Nature Conservation. She strongly believes that we are all capable of creating a dream life in which we successfully share our magic with the world.

Cathy Vartuli is a PhD Engineer and Research Scientist turned Relationship and Sex Educator, a best selling author, and has taught and presented internationally on relationship skills, body image, trauma release, and sexuality. She mentors and consults with sex-positive marketers to help them reach more people in more powerful ways. She knows how painful it can be to have a message and skills to share, but be too shy or awkward to share, and loves helping people find their authentic voice so they can make a difference in the world. Knowing the work she and her partners did was valuable, but not reaching a larger audience, she used her research skills to understand how heart-centered and inspirational marketing could be used for subjects on intimacy and sexuality. She went from someone who wouldn’t show her photo on websites (for fear her weight would harm her partner’s reputations) to sharing her videos – over 4 million views on YouTube, her story and her weight with over 50,000 people, and getting standing ovations from stage. Cathy’s produced and marketed numerous live events in the sex-positive educator and marketing space, including Sex Geek Summer Camp 2014, 2015, 2016, and 2017, Sex Geek Design Studio, Sex Geek Conservatory, Speakers Kit, Sex Geek Sponsorship 101, as well as webinars, summits, and launches. She’s presented marketing skills at Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit, CatalystCon, Converge Con, AASECT, as well as Sex Geek Summer Camp each year, Conservatory, Speakers Kit, Sex Geek Sponsorship 101. Her focuses are on Affiliate Marketing, Content Marketing, Copy Writing and using Story, and Youtube. She helps sex educators leverage their shyness and awkwardness to relate to potential clients in authentic ways, and to inspire the growth and change they want to create. You can find out more about Cathy at www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.

Laurie Handlers is a Sex and Happiness Coach, author of Amazon #1 International Bestseller Sex & Happiness: The Tantric Laws of Intimacy. Through her company Butterfly Workshops, she offers sexual health and awareness courses for corporations and individuals throughout the world. For over a decade, she’s hosted a weekly radio show “Sex and Happiness.” She has produced and starred in three independent award winning films. Also, she is a Lead Faculty member for ISTA. Her other major passion is Radical Life Extension.

Johnny Vajra is a Tantra Coach, Event Organizer, and Sex Educator. He desires to connect people with their 4-Body system (Mental/Physical/Emotional/Spiritual) through sacred sexuality, conscious kink, community outreach, and mindful meditation.
Johnny is certified as a Usui Reiki Master, Karuna Advanced Reiki Intuitive Energy Worker, ThetaHealing Practitioner, as well as ISTA PT Graduate. Inspired by his experiences as an avid soul-seeker, global traveler, and passionate adventurist,
Johnny Vajra empowers individuals to discover and implement habits that will improve their relationships, self-esteem, and career.
Metagene Health & Alkeme Tantra promote evolution of your 4-Body system (Mental/Physical/Emotional/Spiritual) through sacred sexuality, conscious kink, community outreach, and mindful meditation.

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